Sunday, 18 October 2015

IS DIVORCE AN OPTION IN MARRIAGE?

This piece was gotten from www.facebook.com/relationshipmattersin9ja

Lengthy But worth Reading. For Readers are Learners!, While Lazy Readers are the most Victims of Negativities..

Look!, God Forbids Divorce!, For HE who joins you together, will never be a part of Destroying it..
Now reading from d Scriptures, 1corinthians chapt 7 vs 10 &11;
It says,

"To the married!, I give this command (not I, but the Lord) that; A wife must not separate from her husband..
But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. As a husband must not divorce his wife too, and remarry"...

This Tells YOU that God forbids Divorce and if ever you should have that as an Option, then you should Remain Unmarried, Not unless you become a Widow, are u then free to Remarry..
Now, Have you ever seen a Couple that Divorced and are living happy henceforth?, No!. Instead, they'd say they're living happy because they feel they're now free to have Fun however they like.. Not knowing they're committing Adultery!...

For Matthew 5 vs 32 says,
"But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery, and anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery"..
So you see here that the Act of Divorce brings about more Infidelity if optioned on..
As a Man, you are to protect your Wife from going into that direction, for if she does, then you led her into it. Just as it is for a Wife divorcing her Husband too.. Learn to Work things through and patiently...

Divorce is Never an Option.. If the Marriage Oath includes "FOR BETTER, FOR WORSE", and u cant handle d Worse Path, then why go into it in the first place?. Or do you think Marriage is all about the "BETTER" part?

Seriously, Its so funny how many People, especially ladies complain endlessly about their Marriages that they call for a Divorce as the only option, knowing fully well the Oath they took..
Now, For your Information, Don't Start what you can't finish.. Our Parents today should be Applauded with lots of Respect for as Marriage isn't easy considering living the rest of our lives together with our Flesh of Flesh, they stuck together by God's Grace and an Understanding Enduring Patient Love they both had.. So should you if you should go into it..
This is why Courtship is most important as to decide this Journey as you both must have had certain knowlege about eachother, than to Go in with Selfish thoughts of expecting only d BETTER Parts...

Oh ye Christians!, please always read your bible like you come online. It would do you a lot good to understanding the Do's and Dont's of life.. But if you still talk about Divorce and still disobey God to remarrying another while they're still Alive, then you are telling God that His Laws can go to Hell!.. Because as Quote, "Whatsoever is bind on earth, is bound in Heaven"..
Thank You! As you Obey according to ur Religious Laws, set by God!...

For your comments, observations and reservations on this issue, keep it coming.

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