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POWER OF WORDS: A Reflection of who you are...

Article written by Strive MasiwiyaA Reflection: You and your words.

One day after attending a church service in London, I spent several hours going through bookshops looking for a bible translation called The Living Bible. There were no Amazon or Internet editions in those days, so I just had to go from shop to shop.

The reason I was looking so

BUILDING UP A GOOD RELATIONSHIP AND HOME:

HOMES are built on the Foundation of WISDOM & UNDERSTANDING!!!

For where there is knowledge, the Rooms. will be furnished with valuable, beautiful things...

Hmmm! this is beautiful verse read in

FACTS ABOUT MARRIAGE: PRINCE ONYESOLA KABIR

Curled from #Facebook

FROM A MOTHER TO HER DAUGHTER ABOUT MARRIAGE
1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not wise. The home is not a law court.
2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the home - placing embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and trousers -lacks wisdom.
3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of "women's rights" to insult or ridicule her husband

3 LEVELS OF ROMANTIC BONDING BY EARL ALRIGHT

My biggest achievement in my almost 12years counseling experience is being able to change wrong mindsets.

Yes, my job is to help young people master their sexuality, and I minister Sexual Healing through Spoken Words.

But it’s impossible for people to master their sexuality and receive healing when their mindset is wrong. Breaking up is never easy but I have to go…. Knowing you

IS LOVE ENOUGH?

What is love? What is your own understanding of the word Love? How do you perceive it. How do you treat it? How do you manage it? How do you show it.

Do you think just saying "I love you" really does the magic in a relationship. Now if you get to answer these questions, then there is one more last one to answer which is "Is Love Enough". Going by the YOUCAT BOOK Number 402:

"HUSBAND SCARCITY" IN THE 21ST CENTURY

This may not be the best time for me to write on this because of misinterpretations, but I can no longer resist the push. "Husband Scarcity" has become one of the challenges faced by many young girls today. If you go to prayer houses, majority of the intentions are prayer for a life partner.

IS DIVORCE AN OPTION IN MARRIAGE?

This piece was gotten from www.facebook.com/relationshipmattersin9ja

Lengthy But worth Reading. For Readers are Learners!, While Lazy Readers are the most Victims of Negativities..

Look!, God Forbids Divorce!, For HE who joins you together, will never be a part of Destroying it..
Now reading from d Scriptures, 1corinthians chapt 7 vs 10 &11;
It says,

SINGLES SHINDIG

On Sunday 20th September 2015. The Harvest Committee in collaboration with the Catholic Youths Organization of Nigeria "CYON" Ogba chapter hosted a whole lot of youths, young adults, some parents on the event "Singles Shindig". This program was a platform for all to come and mingle, interact, rest off and catch fun. These goals and objectives were actually brought to reality on the very day the event was histed in the church with an undiluted number of guests that graced the event.

Activities for the day were:
- Red Carpet Moment

3 SURE WAYS TO SAY NO TO SEXUAL TEMPTATION BY Earl Alright

Hello everyone and welcome to #August and the #AlrightsPassion Tuesdays’ social media hangout with moi #EarlAlright.

Today is our #PrayingTuesday at the Alright’s Passion and we have been praying for your love and romantic life. God’s concerned about them too.  

Last week July 29, and the week before then, July 22, CYON, YouCat and Reverend Father Ozoh Joseph hosted Sexual Healings; “My Jesus’ Story” and “Sex Isn’t Accidental” at the Our Lady of the Holy Rosary Catholic Church, Ogba, Lagos. It was awesome. I loved our host and the people who came around and they loved us too.  

SEXUAL HEALING - MY JESUS STORY BY EARL ALRIGHT

Topic Delivered on 22nd & 29th July 2015

Sex Isn’t Accidental
With Earl Alright
Courtesy of YOUCAT, CYON Ogba

GOD WANTS YOU TO HAVE SEX
He only does not want you to have it outside marriage.
Proverbs 5:15-20, 1Cor. 6:16, 7:3-5

12 DANGEROUS PEOPLE TO MARRY - BY MR. ONWUKA AZUKA

Topic Delivered on the 3rd June 2015 at the YOUCAT program

Speaker of the day

The easiest time to prevent a divorce or an unhappy marriage is before marriage, not after. There is no gain saying that love can have such a drunken effect on the about to-wed that clear danger signals become unimportant to them, while hope becomes their only commodity. After all, is it not said that love conquers all? Agape or Eros? Why compare God- love, which is unconditional, with sexual love, which can be waver?

There are traits that some people cannot drop. It is like hoping that a right-handed spouse will one day become left-handed: a classical case of waiting for Godot!

If you are looking for a wife or a husband, please be wary of these 12 groups of people

THOSE WHO CAN NEVER APOLOGISE

They would hurt you, annoy you, disappoint you, but would never apologize, because they believe that it would belittle and demean them. When you are wrong, you apologize to them, hoping that they would change. But they never do. Soon you start to feel irritated and agitated. The love and respect you felt for them start to wear out.

THOSE THAT CAN NEVER SAY THANK YOU

Whatever you do for them, they are never grateful. They make statements like: “why should I say thank you when you are just doing your duty? “Some would say that their gratitude is in their heart. So, do I have to open your heart to see the gratitude inside and get it? Ingratitude is an attitude that causes irritation, frustration and unhappiness.

Such people also believe the world owes them a lot. They go around their activities with an entitlement mentality. They are difficult to please.

 

SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP - PART 2 BY DAVID IHIDERO

Topic delivered on the 8th July 2015 at the YOUCAT

HOW TO SPICE UP MY RELATIONSHIP ASIDE SEX  

AGENDA   
Sex in relationship  

Introduction  

·         The Real qualities of your partner.
·          How to spice up your relationship aside sex.
·          Sex is not love  
·         Conclusion   
  
SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP
·         Sex is good 
·         Sex is from God   
·         Sex is not a sin  
·         Sex should only be enjoyed in marriage

       INTRODUCTION     

 It is a great thing to have a relationship with Christ. You are in a godly relationship. If you have a relationship with Christ, it is absurd for you to have a relationship with someone who does not know Christ.           

Amos 3:3 says ‘can two walk together except they agree'. You can’t date someone to change the person but you can only advise, pray or intercede for the person, that he or she comes to know Christ, not you.     

As a Christian/believer, for you to enjoy your relationship, you must be in a relationship with another believer.   

THE REAL QUALITIES OF YOUR PARTNER      
“He is nice”, “she is a good person”, “he is cheerful”, “she is lovely”, and “he is handsome”.... Galatians 5:22 says ‘the fruits of the spirit includes love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control, against these things, there is no law.’ so being nice, lovely, good or cheerful isn’t the fruit of the spirit. Check for the real thing; no matter how nice he is, he can beat you up and nicely get you a nice gift. You think she is so lovely, is she as lovely as Mariah Carey, Jennifer Lopez or Hally berry, do they have good marriages? 
Being lovely is good, but check for the real things. 
Proverbs 31:30 says ‘beauty is in vain, fear is deceitful, but the woman that fears the Lord shall be praised’   

HOW TO SPICE UP YOUR RELATIONSHIP ASIDES SEX       
It is very difficult to say no to sex especially in this sexual tempting and pervert world.
·         Pray together: it is the foundation of every godly relationship. 
·         Study the word of God together: feed your spirit man with the word of God.
·         Ensure your purpose in life is okay with your partner. 
·         Go out on dates: relationships are both spiritual and physical.
·         Visitation: visit each other, face to face communications are very important.
SEX IS NOT LOVE

SEX is SEX - LOVE is LOVE 

Sex and Love are not the same thing.  The moment you introduce sex into your relationship as a single person, you have already destroyed the real purpose of sex. Sex is from GOD and it is for a GODLY seed. The sperm is a token of your virtue and your seed, don’t waste it AROUND. Compatibility and Purpose helps to develop your relationship not SEX. Proverbs 6:26 says ‘Fornication will reduce a man to a piece of bread for the adulterer seek for the precious soul’. 

CONCL USION: SEX is not a SPICE to your relationship, rather it is a TRAP to hunt down your precious soul. SEX in MARRIAGE is a BLESSING. God will enable us and give us the grace to obey his commands in Jesus name….. AMEN 

FINDING A SUITABLE SPOUSE - Part 1 OSEGHALE ROSEMARY (MRS)

Topic Delivered on 17th June 2015

Flyer of the Day

He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. Proverbs 18:22

House and wealth are inherited from fathers, but a prudent wife is from the Lord. Proverbs 19:14

Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered. 1 peter 3:9

Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. Ephesians 5:22

If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing. Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; ... 1 Corinthians 13:1 -13

                        WHY DO I WANT TO GET MARRIED?

This should be the major question anyone who wants to get married should ask his/her self and should be critically and genuinely answered. This will determine your preparations and goals. Biblically, marriage is for these purposes:

1.  Companionship

2.  Raising children in the way of the lord

3.  To avoid fornication

If these are you reasons, then God should be present in all your plans, he will now guild you in all your steps.                                                                     



WAYS TO CHOSE THE RIGHT SPOUSE

1.Potential partner with same interests selecting someone who shares a lot of common interests with you will work in your favour. Remember that all your interests don't really have to be the same, but some would do. "When you decide to spend your life with someone, you must look at things that the two of you would love to do together. For example, if you are a movie buff, you would ideally like to be with someone who enjoys movies as well. This will make your life interesting."

2. Consider your partner's intellect if you are a laid-back person and your partner is an over-achiever that could lead to a threat in your marriage. You must see eye to eye on how both of you are able to think and process things.

SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP: A BUILDING OR DESTRUCTIVE BLOCK - By David Ihidero (PART 1)

Flyer for the Day's event

Good evening church, today we will be talking about sex. Sex is a natural need, it is Holy, and it was created by God for our enjoyment. Sex is not a sin, its not a condemnation, it is a perfect gift from God. Bible says in James 1: 17 “All good and perfect gift comes from God”, so sex is good and perfect because it is from God. But there are guidelines and instructions about enjoying this perfect gift from God.

Sex outside marriage is sinful and it is called fornication. The Bible has 53 verses on fornication. Of all sins, fornication (pre-marital sex) is the only sin we sin against our body.

 1^st Corithians 6:18 says “Flee fornication every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that commiteth fornication sinneth against his own body”.

The Bible clearly forbids sex outside marriage.

 Galatians 5:19-21 says “Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these: Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, drunkenness, reveling, and such like of the which I tell you before as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such shall not inherit the kingdom of God”.

 Let me quickly make something clear here, Fornication and adultery are the same thing. The only difference is the position of the people involved in both sexual immoralities.
         Fornication is pre-marital sex, while adultery is sex outside marriage. They are both sexual immorality. Now, when I say sex here, I don’t mean just the intercourse, sex is not an isolated event, the smooching, fore-play, romance, necking, sucking, kissing are all sex. So it disturbs me when a lady claims to be a virgin by the standard of having her hymen intact but she is involved in masturbation, smooching, romance and all kind of fore plays. Listen, sex starts from the mind. The real sex organ is not the penis or the vagina, it is the MIND. So when you masturbate or getting involved in every kind of sexual act, you have already committed a sin. Of course you know it is impossible to masturbate without the aid of sexual thoughts. Having said all these, and all facts being established, we can now discuss the matter of today.

 IS SEX IN RELATIONSHIP: A BUILDING BLOCK OR A DESTRUCTIVE BLOCK?

Sex is the real joining together, it is from God. Sexual activities in a relationship affects real intimacy.
 1^st Thessalonians chapter 4:3 “For this is the will of God even your sanctification that you should abstain from fornication, everyone of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour”. Fornication will hinder you from enjoying the real purpose of sex. God is not saying that sex is evil, God is for you, he is never against you, the only person that loves you thoroughly and truly is God. If he says you should abstain from fornication in your relationship, he’s saying it so that you can enjoy the sincere benefit of sex. There is nothing written in the Bible to benefit God, the Bible is the manual for life and it is written for our good. If the creator of sex says you shouldn’t have it outside marriage, he has a purpose for that.

Sex is for your enjoyment, but it is to be enjoyed only within the covenant of marriage. Sex weaken/ kills a relationship outside marriage, it doesn’t solidify it.